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19 Ways To Get Your Husband In The Mood For Sex
Initiating sex is one sexy deed that both partners share in a relationship.
Love lives can often ebb and flow; it’s a normal and natural progression in any relationship. Maintaining the romance means making time for physical intimacy, which can often become deprioritized when life gets busy.
However, it takes two to tango to avoid falling into a dry spell. Even if your husband isn’t initiating sex, for one reason or another, it doesn’t mean they aren’t open to having it — they might just need a cue from you. Men appreciate being desired just as much as women, so initiating sex and getting in the mood is one sexy deed both partners share.
If you’re ready to kindle that fire between the sheets, here are 19 ways to help get your husband in the mood for sex.
1. Take a trip down memory lane
While sharing an intimate moment, like cuddling in bed, bring up a memory of a previous romantic encounter together. Memories can be a powerful catalyst for unlocking romantic and erotic feelings as we relive the intimate moment in our imagination, conjuring the emotions we felt at the time too. Unlocking these memories and bringing them to the front of your partner’s mind can be a powerful aphrodisiac.