What It’s Really Like To Have A Threesome

Whether you’re the third, an open-minded couple or someone looking to explore with friends we have some advice and guidance from people who have been there and done that.

So you want to know what it’s like to have a threesome. Not the glossy, airbrushed version we see in porn but the real-life messy version. Well, you aren’t alone. Dr. Justin Lehmiller from the Kinsey Institute found that threesomes are one of the most common sexual fantasies. Although fantasies don’t always become reality, this figure alone suggests that threesomes are on the mind of many.

Desire to have a threesome isn’t as male-orientated as you might think. Porn and pop culture often depict threeways as the ultimate male fantasy. But, plenty of people regardless of gender and sexual orientation partake in and are curious about threesomes.

Participation in group sex can act as a gateway to a more adventurous sex life or be a one-time ‘tick it off your bucket list’ story. Threesomes can also provide a safe environment for sexual identity exploration as you come into close contact with people of different genders. There are plenty of psychological factors that contribute to why you may want a threesome, but you don’t need to justify wanting to…